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(Frequently Asked Questions)

Where is the club located ?

The club facilities are located in the north-east corner of Maryland, minutes off of Interstate 95, on secluded private property in a rural setting.
Address: 255 Linton Run Rd, Port Deposit, MD 21904

Do I have to become a member to visit the club ?

The Private Affair is a private members only Lifestyle Club. You MUST submit an application and become an approved member to enter the club.

How do I join ?

Make sure you have read the Club Rules (Terms and Conditions) and filled out and submitted the membership application with your current face photo.

In terms of membership, what constitutes a couple?

For membership purposes at TPA, a couple is a male and a female.

How would two girls join the club?

Each lovely lady will need her own membership and would pay the single female rate each time she attends. We do not provide a separate option for lady couples.

What do I need to do to attend an event ?

Plan ahead and make your reservation earlier rather than later. Calling the club the night of an event slows things down and makes it difficult to get people checked-in.
1st Visit: You MUST fill out and submit the membership application with your current picture. Once you receive confirmation that you are Approved, you will be able to get a Username/Password to use to purchase membership and events. Every new member must be taken on a club sponsored tour by one of club hosts.
Visits 2+: Log into the website with your account and make your reservation online.

I'm new but I'm coming with someone that is a member. Do I need to take a tour ?

YES. Every new member must be taken on a club sponsored tour by one of club hosts.

What does it cost to join ?

See our Membership section on the website for current membership costs.

How much does it cost to attend a Social Event ?

Pricing varys depending on the event. Please see the Events listing for specific pricing.

How old do I have to be to join ?

You MUST be 21 years old to join.

What should I bring with me ?

1st visit: You will be required to provide your government issued ID. Bring your drinks if you are bringing any, payment (cash or credit are accepted), a change of clothes (if desired) and anything else you may need for the evening. There is no re-entry into the club once you go outside.
Visits 2+: While not always needed, you should be prepared to show your government issued ID at the request of club staff. Payment if not prepaid (cash or credit are accepted). Be sure to bring in your drinks, change of clothes (if desired) and anything else you may need for the evening. There is no re-entry into the club once you go outside.

Are single females or single males allowed to join ?

YES, both single females and single males are allowed to join. However, single males must be sponsored by a member in good standing and must be accompanied by that sponsor on their first visit to the club. Unless stated otherwise, we have limits on how many single males may attend an event.

Does the club have a dress code ?

Yes, There is a DRESS CODE. We strongly suggest business casual. DRESS TO IMPRESS. You only have one chance at a 'FIRST IMPRESSION', make sure your first impression is a good one!

What can I expect when I walk in the door ?

Contrary to popular belief, you will not walk into the club and see people naked and having sex everywhere in one big orgy. What you will see is people dancing, socializing and having fun. We keep the more risque behavior secluded to the playrooms area.

What nights/hours are you open ?

Special Events held on SOME Friday's start at 9p.
Most social parties are held on Saturday nights and start at 8 PM.
The club closes at 2 AM.
1st time visitors should arrive by 9pm. If you arrive after 9pm, your tour could be delayed and it could take you longer to get checked in. You must arrive by 11 PM to be admitted to the club for that night. DO NOT ARRIVE AFTER 11 PM, THE DOOR WILL BE LOCKED.

How do I make changes to my membership?

Email for assistance

COUPLE MEMBERSHIP- You cannot remove someone from your membership. You can only remove yourself and submit a new application.

SINGLE MEMBERSHIP - You can add someone to your membership making it a couple membership for a small fee.

My question isn't answered here.

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