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The Private Affair

Maryland's Premier Lifestyle On-Premise Club.

The Private Affair is a private members only Lifestyle Club that has been open for almost 25 years.

With about 10,000 sq ft of party space you will find plenty of room for socializing, dancing and a variety of playrooms for your fantasy and pleasure.

Whether you are a newcomer or a veteran, come join in the fun of an electric atmosphere where people come to meet. If you are a newcomer, you will be welcomed and have a blast. We don't think of you as a newcomer, but instead just a friend we haven't met yet.

We have professional lighting effects and DJs that keep you coming to the dance floor. This is a BYOB club with a professional bar area for your convenience with free soft drinks and mixers. Just let our bartenders know how you like your drinks and while they take care of you, don't forget to take care of them.

Unless specifically stated, memberships are REQUIRED to attend an event. Door fees are paid at each event and vary based on the event. Please see pricing on the event for more information. We reserve the right to deny entry or membership to persons seeking to join or enter at any time at the discretion of management and ownership.

Welcome to YOUR club,
Donna & Tony

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Upcoming Events


Membership is Required to attend events

1 Month$25

You can pay your Membership fee when purchasing an event or you can pay your membership immediately if you wish.

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Event Fees

Event fees vary, see pricing listed on the event pages.

An event fee AND paid membership is required in order to attend an event, unless otherwise noted in the event description.

New Members

EVERYONE attending an event is required to be a member. You must be 21 years old to attend our events. Follow the steps below to begin your membership process.

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Dress Code

Dress to Impress

We try to create a night-club atmosphere for each social party and require that you dress accordingly.

Men: A nice shirt (preferably with a collar) and dress pants or clean fashionable jeans. Dress/Khaki shorts are acceptable in the warmer months.

Absolutely NO:

  • Hats or Do Rags ( the only exception are dress hats cowboy and derby only)
  • Hoodies
  • Tank tops or muscle shirts
  • Sports Jerseys
  • Workout clothes or sweat/jogging suits
  • Uniforms
  • Sneakers or work boots
  • Cut-offs or gym shorts

The only exception to the dress code above are during appropriate theme nights. You ARE required to abide by the dress code.

You only get one chance to make a FIRST impression!